“Submission is a gift, not a given…”
The value of the submission is proportional to the pleasure of the sub. The higher the satisfaction she gets, best served the Lord will be.
The Dom that cares, protects and educates, will be graced by all obedience and sweetness that his slave can offer.
So, thinking first in Your girl will result in intense feelings and emotions experienced by two, and it can lead to the most beautiful experience D/s of your life.
Think about it! :)